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"It used to be, a boy brings you roses or sings under your balcony - you date, you establish a relationship, then, after a ceremony in which you get to wear the most excellent frock of your life, you have sex. Now its all, well, backwards. We jump straight into the sex, and then -if we feel like it- we start worrying about the relationship. And frocks don't come into it at all, really."